I have been asked so many times lately, "Why are you single?" Or when I say I'm single people say, "I don't understand why you are single!" Well the reason I'm single is because I'm picky. I'm picky in the sense that I'm not a serial dater. I will not date a guy that I can't see marrying. If he isn't husband material then I just won't date him. I'm not a one night stand kinda girl. My last relationship was 3 years ago and I think I may have gone on one date since then. I'm happy being single because I know one day I will find my future husband so what's the rush.
I do get asked out sometimes but most of the time I just don't see it going anywhere besides friends. I am the type of person to be blunt and up front about liking someone or not liking someone that way. The reason why is because I don't want to waste their time when I know its not going anywhere but the friend zone. I also don't want to waste my time honestly. I work a lot and mostly at night so for me to have a night off and actually go out on a date is a HUGE thing. I am giving up seeing my friends that I rarely get to see, hanging out with my family, or doing something I want to do.
I'm not picky in the sense that I have a list of things I want in a guy. I just know what I like and what I don't like in a guy. The only things I know I want in a guy is for him to be stable, come from a good family, and get a long with my friends and family. I don't think that's too picky but I also have to be attracted to the guy. I like to get to know a guy first and be friends and talk and just get to know each other. If there's a spark then great but if theres not then I made a new friend. I love making new friends but some guys don't like rejection. I don't either and I have been rejected by every single guy I've ever dated. And ya it sucks but it made me who I am today.
So there that's why I'm single and I don't settle for just any guy. My future husband is out there somewhere and when I'm supposed to meet him and date him I will. Until then I will be single and happy being just me.
Have a wonderful day!
xoxo
E
P.S. I have a crush on someone now so I'm gonna see where it goes. And no I won't say who it is ;)
Wednesday, August 10, 2011
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Ever since i read this yesterday, Ive been evaluating my single status lol that i have recently wanted to change but i think im cool with it now. Thanks!
So right! There's no need to rush.
'If something is meant to be, it will happen in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason.'
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