There's a Purpose

I recently saw this tweet




It is how I've always felt about relationships. I'm the pickiest person you will ever meet when it comes to the guy I date. I don't want just anyone I want someone who compliments me and is my equal.


Now I think communication is key to a good relationship. If you like someone then talk to them, that lets them know you're interested. Ignoring someone can be taken the wrong way. And a little tip guys if a girl texts you and you don't respond for awhile she's gonna think you don't want to talk to her anymore. If you're busy then take 3 seconds and tell her, then when you have time call or text her. Guys another tip girls like guys to contact them first and chase them. Kinda like in kindergarten when guys would chase the girls during recess. I want a guy to chase me but if I want to talk to a guy I will text first because I like to live in the moment.


Now I have to add the reason I feel like someone isn't interested if they haven't responded to me within a few days or at least a week, is because that's what has happened to me in past relationships. Guys just stop talking to me randomly for no apparent reason. I understand that you don't like hurting someone but I would much rather someone say hey I don't see this going anywhere so let's be friends. Or maybe they don't want to be friends but I would rather someone tell me then ignore me. I'm one to dwell and blame myself, I assume that I must have done something somehow. It also hurts and honestly it's a respect thing.

I have talked to many guys and girls about relationships and some agree with me and some don't. But that whats so awesome because everyone's different and they see things differently. I read a book called the 5 Love Languages, here's the website http://www.5lovelanguages.com/ Check it out take the quiz and see what your love language is, it's important for relationships, friendships, coworkers, family, etc.. One of mine is quality time, I like for someone to hang out and pay attention to me basically. So go see what's your love language.




xoxo
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